Friendship Tips: Being a Good Friend to Someone with Autism

Do:

• Be kind and patient – sometimes it takes a little longer to respond.

• Include them – invite them to games, clubs, or hangouts, even if they don’t always say yes.

• Respect their space – some people don’t like hugs or loud noises; always ask first.

• Talk about shared interests – they may love to share knowledge about their favourite topic!

• Use clear words – avoid sarcasm, jokes, or teasing unless you’re sure they’ll understand.

• Celebrate differences – everyone has unique strengths and challenges.

Don’t:

• Don’t tease, bully, or laugh if they act differently.

• Don’t force eye contact, hugs, or touching.

• Don’t get upset if they need a break or leave early.

• Don’t talk over them—give time for answers.

• Don’t assume they don’t want friends just because they’re quiet.

Remember:

• A good friend accepts people as they are.

• Friendships don’t have to look the same for everyone—sometimes just sitting together or sharing an interest is enough.

• Being kind, respectful, and patient makes a huge difference.